Dating
Practicing Kindness is a Dating Skill
In my practice, I work with single women who are actively dating, often daily. Many arrive carrying long-held stories and frustrations about why meaningful connections
September 11, 2026
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Black Love
So, You Said Yes to Exclusivity
When a woman decides to move from dating to exclusivity, the game shifts. It’s no longer about seeing if someone checks your boxes. It’s about
August 28, 2026
Dating
When Attraction Softens Standards
July brings us into matters of the heart. Cancer season, in particular, activates our heart space and gently nudges us inward, inviting us to both
August 14, 2026
Relationships
The Three I’s: A Hidden Architecture of Healthy Relationships
Every meaningful relationship rests on an invisible exchange. We share parts of ourselves, we offer access to our inner world, and we trust that the
July 31, 2026
Dating
Unspoken Expectations Are Wild: A Case for Speaking Up in Your Relationship
In one of my recent counseling sessions, a client entered with a story that felt familiar to every woman in the room. She started with
July 17, 2026
Dating
Chemistry, Confusion, and its Emotional Costs
There’s a particular kind of disappointment that comes from dating someone you genuinely like—someone who feels good to be around, who sparks interest, laughter, attraction—and
July 3, 2026
Marriage
3 More Common Internal Relationship Threats Part II
Author’s Note: This two-part series began with 3 Common Internal Relationship Threats [Part I], which explored the first three internal threats and how each can
June 19, 2026
Marriage
3 Common Internal Relationship Threats Part I
Author’s Note: This two-part series begins with 3 Common Internal Relationship Threats [Part I], which explores three internal threats and how each can disrupt connection
June 17, 2026
Dating
Why Men Should Invest First in Dating and Relationship Formation
Yesterday, I laid out a framework I call the 3 Ds — design, desire, and delivery — and the first principle inside it: allow men
May 22, 2026
Dating
The 3 Ds: Design, Desire, and Delivery
A practical framework for women who are tired of giving first or most and getting less. There’s a word that comes up almost every time
May 21, 2026
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