“Am I man enough?” That’s the question at the heart of many conversations about marriage among Black men today. We’ve all heard the stories and seen the posts: marriage rates in the Black community are declining, and countless theories about why have been debated in barbershops, living rooms, and online spaces. But rarely do we […]
Am I Ready for This? Black Men and the Real Talk on Marriage Read More »
Once a relationship progresses to engagement, I begin guiding couples through premarital education, preparation, and planning. This stage is often the most uncomfortable and the most necessary. The romantic love that brought the couple this far doesn’t disappear, but it begins to share space with other, more complex aspects of partnership. Decision-making, finances, routines, family
Love Isn’t Always Enough: Premarital Work That Strengthens Black Marriages Read More »
Before you assess anyone else, get grounded in your own desires, values, and boundaries. What do you truly want out of a relationship? Not what sounds cute on social media. Not what others have told you to want. What do you want to feel, experience, and build with someone? Ask yourself: What do I value